Stories from a Texas Girl from Across the World

“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” - Mark Twain

Friday, January 27, 2012

Elephant Kisses in Chiang Mai

The first 5 days of my 6 week Asian adventure began by taking two flights to Chiang Mai, Thailand.  I had heard such wonderful things about this place from other people and I was so excited to experience it for myself!  The number one activity I was looking forward to was going to an elephant sanctuary.  Without getting on a self-righteous pedestal, I just want to share my thoughts on elephant treatment in Thailand. 

Elephants are revered as very holy creatures in Thailand - they are featured in the temple designs and artwork and are often thought of as the creatures who created Thailand and made it what it is today.  That being said, it's really shocking to learn of how these sacred animals are treated in today's societies.  In the past, they were irreplaceable workers in the teak timber business; however, as logging became more illegal and unnecessary, hundreds of elephants were left without work and either abandoned or shipped off to work in the growing tourist industry.  While these are probably the most gentle and amazing creatures I've ever seen, it is the belief of the mahouts (elephant owners) that the animals have to be beaten into submission in order to be tame enough to learn how to allow tourists to ride them, perform tricks and earn them tons of money.  When the elephant is only 4 years old it is taken from its mother, shoved into a cage and beaten mercilessly for a week until its "spirit is broken".  Because this tradition is hundreds of years old, it's really hard to change people's minds about this.

On a happy note, we went to the Elephant Nature Park, which is a sanctuary for saved elephants where they are free to roam, form herds and generally enjoy life again.  There are 36 elephants at this sanctuary and most of them had horrific stories of abuse and neglect.  We spent the whole day (8am-6pm) feeding them fruit (entire watermelons and huge bunches of bananas), walking around with them, kissing their trunks (ok maybe that was mostly me) and bathing them in the river.  It was the most incredible day.  Some of them still recall their tricks from their previous life so I even got to trade some bananas for an elephant kiss right on my check.  Pretty awesome. 

This place was worth every penny, and if you ever find yourself in Chiang Mai I urge you go there and experience it for yourself.  Skip the "ride an elephant through the jungle"outing, because chances are that elephant suffered way too much for that 15 minute ride to be worth it. 

On a side note, the food and atmosphere in Chiang Mai are wonderful!  There many options and fun things to do that we ended up staying an extra day to fit it all in.  We visited Tiger Kingdom - which after my soapbox about the elephants, I'm a bit ashamed to admit.  They claimed the tigers weren't drugged and were treated fairly, but the cages were quite small and I've heard from others that it's not at all the way they portray.  I can't deny that I loved rubbing my head on the tigers and feeding the babies out of bottles, though.  They are the most beautiful animals.

So to sum up Chiang Mai...elephant kisses, lots of food, new Canadian friends, temple stairs and tiger babies.

Next stop: Bangkok

Thursday, January 19, 2012

Christmas Down Under and New Years in New Zealand



Despite it being a good 3 weeks post-holidays, I figured my first holiday away from home deserved a blog - late or not.  I went into this holiday season with mixed emotions...Sad to be away from family and our long list of traditions, happy and excited to being doing something completely new and different.  Luckily, this trip did not disappoint in any way.

In Singapore, I met a great group of girls (non ICR teachers) and we started a great tradition of Wednesday night dinners.  This lead to some life long friendships and, thanks to Sally, an amazing Australian adventure.  Sally and Shaun not only offered us an amazing place to stay, with delicious food and a gorgeous beach all within walking distance, but also took it upon themselves to make sure that we saw and did everything we wanted and more while we were there.  From holding baby koalas to hopping around with kangaroos, eating burritos almost daily to learning how to play the local sport of lawn bowling - we did it all.  Spending Christmas eve in my "I believe in Santa" t-shirt on the Gold Coast beach was surreal to say the least.  Christmas Day was made even more amazing when Shaun invited us to spend the day with his extended family.  Their warmth and love towards us was amazing.  Within minutes I felt like I was part of the family.  If I couldn't be with my family on that day, this was definitely the next best thing.  After exchanging presents, eating WAY too much, and playing ridiculous games, we partied the night away with an all out sing-a-long to old 45" records including Sonny and Cher, ACDC and everything in between.




As if the holiday couldn't get any better, it was time to leave Oz for yet another adventure in New Zealand.  Everything I had ever heard about NZ boasted of gorgous landscapes and lots of adventure.  These were understatements to say the least - we saw the most beautiful flowers, mountains, hills, lakes - you name it.  After living in Singapore and not being behind the wheel for pretty much two years, renting a car for the week was the highlight of the trip!  Julian was chosen as the one and only driver because a) it was manual and b) they drive on the left side - I would have definitely sent us flying over the edge or into oncoming traffic.  This was fine by me, and I spent the hours of driving hanging out of the window taking a bazillion pictures.  It was so fun to just jump in the car and go - not having to wait for a bus or train or taxi.  While there were tons of adventure activities to choose from, they weren't cheap, and there was honestly enough to see and do without them.  I had a fantastic massage and took a gondola ride to the top of a moutain while Julian went downhill mountain biking - that's my kind of adventure :)  New Years was spent listening to live music during the day and a spectacular fireworks show by night.  Not a bad way to start 2012.





As I'm writing this, I'm in an internet cafe in Chiang Mai, Thailand.  My contract with the school in Singapore has ended (not without some extreme drama but that's another story), and for the first time I find myself without a job to rush back for.  I must say - a girl could definitely get used to this (until the money runs out of course).  Three days ago I started my 6 week Southeast Asia travel extravaganza and I am loving every second.  Stay tuned for more ...